Friday 9 November 2012

Bhai Dooj - Festival of Love, Affection and Care




 Bhai Dooj is one of the famous festivals of Hindus, celebrated on the fifth day of Diwali. It falls after two days of diwali on ‘Shukla Pakha Dwityiya’ in the month of Kartik. This festival marks the end of diwali celebrations. This year, Bhai Dooj will be falling on 15th November 2012.  This occasion is very popular among all the persons and it is  perrformed in all parts of the country. This festival is distinguished by different names at different places like it is known as ‘Bhai-Dooj’ in North India, Bhav-Bij in Maharashtra and Bhai-Phota in Bengal and ‘Bhai-Teeka in Nepal. This event indicates the love and affection of brothers and sisters. On this day, sisters put tilak on the forehead of their brothers, give them sweets and pray for their long life and well being.
There is a story behind Bhai Dooj like all other festivals that is based on the incident that the Yama (the God of death) went to visit his sister's house after a long period of time. His sister, Yami was excited and welcomed him by putting a good luck mark on his forehead for his welfare. Yami and Yama shared a meal. Yama was thrilled by his sister’s welcome, love and affection. Then, he proudly blessed her that every year on Bhai Dooj, if a sister will put Tilak on her brother's forehead then no one would be able to harm her brother. Since then, the tradition of Tilak ceremony started. And, it is a custom in Maharashtra on bhau-beej that the sister, whose brother is far away from her, can worship Moon God for the happy life of her brother. 
On this auspicious day, sisters perform Puja for their brother’s safety and good life. Brothers in return, give gifts to their sisters as a token of love. It is a day of food-sharing; gift-giving and reaching out to the inner most depths of the hearts. Delicious food, new clothes, pure prayers, invaluable gifts and hearts full of care and friendliness are the pious symbol of Bhai Dooj.  
Astrologers suggest some important points to perform this puja such as:
·         Wakeup before sunrise and get ready to do the puja.
·         Puja is to be performed before noon.
·         Decorate puja thali with roli, chawal, sweets, gifts, money and nariyal.
·         Brothers should keep handkerchief on their head and should face towards East –West direction during Tika ceremony.
·         Brothers should go to sister’s house and sister’s should put tilak on the brother’s forehead and pray for their long life, prosperity. Also, they should perform the Aarti of her brother in a good manner.
·         They should do the lunch together as well as they should express their joys by exchanging the gifts.
In addition to this, Bhai Dooj is the ideal time for family reunion as all brothers and sisters in the family get together. People should express their love by distributing sweets and other things on this day.
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